Self-Esteem and Confidence: The Keys to Independence for Diabetic Kids
Diabetic children with healthy self-esteem and -confidence have better ability to figure out how to take care of their selves with regard to their health management.
Self-esteem will be the love and acceptance someone experiences for his self. Self-esteem is acquired and developed, as nobody is born with it. Through life experiences, a person acquires and cultivates their self-esteem. The younger this is, the harder parents can influence the person's self-esteem by teaching her or him how to love and respect her or his self.
Confidence and self-esteem is usually partnered together.
Children rich in self-esteem and confidence are generally seen using the following traits:
- Take responsibility;
- Independent;
- Proud of their very own accomplishments;
- Ability to allow go of frustrations;
- Manage peer pressure well;
- Open to new ideas, challenges and activities and initiate these;
- Good in handling good and bad emotions; and
- Helpful to others.
Moreover, to raised see the significance of growing your child's healthy self-esteem, consider the following:
Mary, 10 years old, just started traversing to a new school. A girl classmate invites Mary to take a seat beside her in the cafeteria. This new friend offered Mary cookies after the meals they eat. Mary will not need to tell her friend she's diabetic so she eats the cookies. Because of the dessert's sweetness, Mary's blood glucose levels rises, so she falls asleep during the last class consequently.
For this, her classmates tease her by calling her "Sleepy Mary, Miss Contrary." The following school day, Mary doesn't want to go to school anymore and wants to work from home instead.
Because of Mary's poor self-esteem and confidence, situations similar to the above scenario may have the tendency to help keep lowering Mary's self-esteem and confidence. This will affect her everyday activity, including meeting new friends.
Now, let's look at the same scenario and Mary's possible reaction if she's got healthy self-esteem and confidence:
Mary admits that she is diabetic so she cannot consider the cookies, but thank her classmate for offering it to her. Because of Mary's admission, her friend asked her if she's to take a few shots, causing other students to participate the conversation, expecting Mary's reply to the question. Mary replies within the negative, saying instead that she's got an insulin pump, even offering to show it to her classmates. When she showed the pump to her classmates, realize ask her many questions. When Mary gets home, she tells her mother that they made friends with her classmates given that they think her insulin pump was cool.
Now you have an idea how healthy self-esteem and confidence can perform on Mary's notion of love and acceptance. This is what we would like our children to have: healthy self-appreciation. So, now we visit the 10 things you can perform to ensure your kid's healthy self-esteem.
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